Ibu Harus Tahu Semua
..........Mama Have To Know Everything

That's why I love you so much... walaupun jarang akur, tapi sesekali mau juga kalian poto berdua...( Although rarely get along, but occasionally you want to take a photo together )

Pinginnya punya adik cewek... biar bisa disuruh masak.... Tapi kayak si adik bisa masak juga nih,  Jadi gak harus punya adik cewek... hehehe...(He wants to have a younger sister ... let's be told to cook .... But it turns out the younger brother can cook too, So do not have to have a younger sister...)

Ale's graduation.... July 4'2017.... Junior high school....Semoga bahagia dan sukses di bidangmu masing2, anak2ku... Aamiin.... (Hopefully happy and successful always... Aamiin)

Arti sebuah nama.....
Berawal dari perbincangan tentang arti sebuah nama....
Ale penasaran mengapa nama anak2 jawa sekarang tidak menggunakan lagi nama jawa pada umumnya... seperti sri, joko... kujelasin bahwa kecenderungan orang2 jaman sekarang menggunakan nama arab, inggris untuk nama anak2nya.
Ale : terus mengapa ibu tidak menggunakan nama2 jawa untuk nama anak2
Aku : lhah, ibu yang kelahiran 70an aja nggak pake nama jawa, jadi nggak kepikiran juga kasih nama jawa di anak2 ibu
Ale: emang lenny artinya apa.
Aku : tanya aki lah yang memberi nama
Ale : ibu harus tau dong
Tak berapa lama ale browsing arti nama lenny
Lenny... laki2...bahasa jerman bentuk umum dari leonard
Lenny... laki2...sejarah...bentuk kesayangan dari leonard
Lennie... laki2...bahasa jerman... berani seperti singa
Leni atau leny..laki2...bahasa jerman...berani seperti singa

"Kok laki2 semua,bu" sahut ale...."eh ada 1 cewe...lenny ...perempuan...ide intelektual, tidak mudah dibodohi,tidak dibuat-buat dan unik, romantis,sensual, memerlukan banyak kebebasan...."...

" ahhhh, ibu ternyata singa......" sahut kenji yang dari tadi mendengarkan penjelasan tentang nama....
Terkuaklah apa arti nama lenny.... singa....

what's the meaning of a name

everything start when we talk about my name, Ale really curious about that"why your name isn't like another Javanese? there are sekar or Sri? why has to be Lenny? and why you didn't give us Javanese name too?""oh, come on even me, who born on 70', use such untraditional name"by the way, your name's meaning?""hmm...I don't know exactly but maybe your grandpa know about that."oh ma, how could you don't know about that?let me googling about that ok, I find itlenny...masculine.... common word for Leonard (lion in Germany)lenny...masculine....history...nickname for Lionlenni....masculine....Germany....brave means Lionleny or Leni ...masculine means brave like a lion why all that masculine? ok I found in feminine Lenny means, ...intelectual idea, smart,natural dan unique , romantic,sensual, need more freedom "... "wow..you are a lion mama! kenji join our conversation. so, finally We know my name's meaning a lion

Sesekali dicandid.... karena kau selalu tidak mau tampil di depan media...(Once in a while .... because you always do not want to appear in front of the media)

Lumayanlah... buat seorang yang hanya belajar otodidak.... Semoga kamu bisa lancar dan sukses ya, mas ale... Aamiin...( Not bad ... for someone who only learn self-taught .... Hopefully you can be smooth and successful, Mas Ale )

Liburan di Pantai Srau Pacitan lebaran kemarin....Kenji "nanti kalo aku sudah di London, aku mau ajakin Oi ke sana, ah. Kemarin kan aku juga diajak ke pantai...."... Aamiin..(Vacation in Srau Beach Pacitan when Eid Al Fitr  .... Kenji " if I am in London, I will take  Oi there...because I was also invited to the beach by him ....")


Pasti akan sepi....
seperti tadi Kenji menelpon dari rumah...."ibu, sepiiiii... Mas Ale di kamar dan aku nggak dibolehin masuk"... untuk menghiburnya kusuruh dia melihat acara TV. Teman2nya masih berlibur di kota yang lain karena sekolah masih masuk minggu depan. Kenji tidak pernah bisa tinggal lama di rumah. Sebentar di rumah, sebentar sosialisasi dengan teman2nya. Dan kalau Kenji pergi main, Ale yang telpon ke aku . "Kenji mana sih, kok nggak pulang2".... Lah sama aja....

Minggu depan Ale sudah mulai boarding school.... di kota lain... Tapi rasa sepi sudah terasa....tidak pernah lagi tiap pagi menyuruhnya bangun. Siang menyuruhnya mandi, makan, mencuci piring, masukin cucian ke mesin cuci, jemurin baju, masukin jemuran...(eh banyak bener ya... masak sih...). Malam menyuruhnya tidur, apalagi kalau ada tugas sekolah ngerjainnya mepet padahal tugasnya pasti banyak. Semoga aja di boarding school melatihnya untuk menikmati hidup lebih baik lagi. Doa  ibu selalu menyertaimu, mas Ale sayang.

it will be quiet...

as usual Kenji called me, "Mama I'm alone, Ale in his room, and don't let me in"

so I ask him to do another activity like watcing tv in the living room, but it's didn't take long time after 15 minutes , he played around the neighbour, and then his brother call me" mama, where is  kenji ?he plays too long in the out side!"

"oh boys!"

next week, Ale will start his boarding school, on the other city....and I start feel lonely too...I won't ask him for wake up in the morning...for bath, eat in the right time, dish wash, do the laundry ( ok...it's sounds to much actually).not included when he had many homework on the deadline, hopefully in his new school he will be more discipline and in the future he will be have a better life. Allah bless you, honey...

Good luck, my handsome boys.... Love you forever.....